#poetry · love · motherhood · parenting

She’s exactly like you!


They say, "she's exactly like you!" But I look over at you, and I see...so much more! You're a little bit of me, sure...the good 'little' I hope, And you're a little bit your dad...his excellent 'little.' But...you are still so much more! I look over at you and marvel, did she really come through… Continue reading She’s exactly like you!

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The Unsung Hero


Happiness is when…a stray solitary thought you once had, gets recognised for what it's worth by a magician in an editor's cloak, who then invites you to take it for the long walk that it deserves.Truly grateful to Shikha Lamba, editor of Beyond the Boundaries magazine, Hong Kong, for lending me her wonderful platform to… Continue reading The Unsung Hero

Living life hacks · Musings

Life, Everyday


Sometimes true accomplishment means, simply getting through yet another mundane day with joy.You know, the kind that brings with it the monotony of everyday…the one where nothing happens, other than the repetition of routine…no spark of excitement…nothing to look forward to…no new adventure! The story of our lives will eventually be told through our milestones… Continue reading Life, Everyday

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Normalising Wrong


When nothing feels dirty...it does not necessarily mean everything is clean.It could also mean that everything around is already so contaminated that this filth fit right in! In the under belly of a civilised life, lies the murk. Where the opinion of others becomes so important, that the fear of not fitting in, is far… Continue reading Normalising Wrong

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Dear We, the people,


'Your silence gives consent,' said the great Greek philosopher, Plato. But every once in a while something happens to wake our collective conscience from its disinterested slumber, and we find ourselves at the epicentre of major change. It then becomes the job of the majority in a democracy to demand accountability. The power of this… Continue reading Dear We, the people,

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Choosing Wisely


Isn't it absurd that we fear failure... when the entire world as we know it, is in existence only because of it.  The Bhagvad Gita says, our negative karma accumulates  as a result of our mistakes.  In order to work off this negative karma we need to take life in a new form.  Therefore, every… Continue reading Choosing Wisely

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Prohibition of the Preconceived Predictions


Do your mornings begin with making mental lists of all the things that are likely to happen in your day, in chronological order...then proceed to plan and prepare? Have you ever been invited to a party, or have an upcoming meeting, or are simply visiting friends and family...and you visualise exactly what you're going to… Continue reading Prohibition of the Preconceived Predictions

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Writing…the blessing & its burden.


The art of writing is undoubtedly a blessing. To be able to articulate your thoughts into words is a skill set that is a treasured gift.  But what most people don't see, is that writing is merely the instrument. A writer has to be primarily and more importantly a thinker first. What seems like an… Continue reading Writing…the blessing & its burden.

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Prayer


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What’s been brushed under the carpet?


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Celebrating Sibling Love


Sibling love, brothers, sisters, inclusion, credit due, #Selfhelphacks, #lifeslessons, #wordstoliveby, #myrealinfluencers, #thingsmyfathertaughtme, #thingsiwantmychildrentoknow, #practicewhatyoupreach, #intheory, #easiersaid, #sadguru, #dalailama, #timesofindia, #mumbaimirror, #thesunseteffect, #speakingtree, #paolocoelho, #rumi, #kabirkedohe, #hindustantimes, #thehindu, #midday, #newyorktimes, #huffingtonpost,

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Killing Negativity


#Selfhelphacks #lifeslessons #wordstoliveby #myrealinfluencers #thingsmyfathertaughtme #thingsiwantmychildrentoknow #practicewhatyoupreach #intheory #easiersaid #sadguru #dalailama #timesofindia #mumbaimirror #thesunseteffect #speakingtree #paolocoelho #rumi #kabirkedohe #gulzar

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Karma


#Selfhelphacks #lifeslessons #wordstoliveby #myrealinfluencers #thingsmyfathertaughtme #thingsiwantmychildrentoknow #practicewhatyoupreach #intheory #easiersaid #sadguru #dalailama #timesofindia #mumbaimirror #thesunseteffect #speakingtree #paolocoelho #rumi #kabirkedohe #gulzar

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What’s for dinner? The vital superfoods that no one is telling us about!


'All living things need food, water and air to survive.' This is one of the first lessons that we were given in life. 'Your diet should include three balanced meals a day, in order for you to grow, fight diseases and stay alive.’ These are undisputed scientific facts, vital for our ‘survival.’ But...we need a… Continue reading What’s for dinner? The vital superfoods that no one is telling us about!

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Cutting off negativity


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Misfit


Do you ever feel like a misfit, made of invisible glass? Struggling to be seen where you don't belong? Like people just don't 'get you',  until you dwarf your conversations and thoughts...  (the ones you would much rather have), following their lead, instead, so they may relate,  and 'let you in' until you're one of… Continue reading Misfit

#spirituality · Quote · Science & spirituality

All the world…


For all those who need this today... #consolations #leftunsaid #life #lifesquotes #thingsmyfathertaughtme

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Post covid world and my book deal!


I'm so thrilled to have been a part of this inspiring series of posts initiated by Canready Consultants Inc. on what tomorrow could and more importantly should look like. https://www.linkedin.com/posts/canready-consultants_post-covid-world-activity-6676901361378050048-eb0q

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Re-examining Exams… should they go the dinasour way?!


2020... True to its name, this year has shown us, with crystal clarity, many aspects of our lives and lifestyle through a fresh, new and improved lens! And with regards to the education system, worldwide, this is what we learnt: 1) At a time of global crisis, the education process was temporarily halted as it… Continue reading Re-examining Exams… should they go the dinasour way?!

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The burden of borrowed grief…India’s ‘privileged’ class and the ‘migrant’ crisis.


Over the past month we have repeatedly witnessed the terror of our migrant workers. And I use the term migrant loosely because I do not comprehend how our brothers and sisters from the same country can be classified as such? Agreed, the place they think of as home is in a different state and their… Continue reading The burden of borrowed grief…India’s ‘privileged’ class and the ‘migrant’ crisis.

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The History of India…A Hope for its Future


'Ramayan' TRP rating breaks record, garners 170 million viewers - Republic Ramanand’s epic show has overtaken the popular “Game Of Thrones” in terms of viewership. -Times of India When I was a little girl, I lived in a loud, loving, boisterous joint family with nine members and a rotation of house guests. Mobile phones had… Continue reading The History of India…A Hope for its Future

#spirituality · Musings · Self-obituary

Before I Say Goodnight


Each night after I tuck my children to bed, and lock my home up for the day, I welcome silence once again into my world. It's in those moments, as any mother with young children will tell you, when the frenzied momentum of my day slows down and takes a break. It's those few last… Continue reading Before I Say Goodnight

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The Wave


Coping in bizarre times It's a wave…that rises high and crashes lowDay after day…every single dayThe high of gratitude, becauseEveryone I love is healthy,For the roof over my head,For the food that's on my table.But day after day, everyday, comes the inevitable lowWhat are we doing here?What are we hiding from?Statistics?!Our bodies, minds and soul… Continue reading The Wave

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Making


Coping in bizarre times From making the wheel to making babies, the human mind has clearly been designed to create. We feel most productive when we ideate and invent. People work in order to conceptualise...to manufacture...and to generate an income. However, at an unprecedented and difficult time like this, when the life as we knew… Continue reading Making

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Scent


#life #lifeslessons #grief #copingwithgrief #mourning #grieving #dad #father #nostalgia #memories #love #loss #copingwithlove

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When mum and dad lie


Warning: not recommended reading for conservative adults who cringe and embarrass easy Dear Kids who are lied to, We are very aware that some of the responses we parents give to your many questions, are confusing and disappointing to say the least. ‘You’re still too small, you won’t understand’ ‘I’ll tell you when you grow… Continue reading When mum and dad lie

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Mind your manners, parents!


Scene 1: Unfolds in a pediatrician’s clinic that was exceptionally crowded. The receptionist explained that there had been an emergency delivery that required the doctor’s presence at the hospital and therefore he was running terribly behind schedule. Children of all ages, most with runny noses that were buried in gadgets, displayed more patience than their… Continue reading Mind your manners, parents!

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I have a son and a daughter and this is why I don’t treat them equally


“You must never ever hurt a girl”, I dutifully explained to my 8year old son as part of my ongoing effort as a self-proclaimed feminist to raise my son to be the perfect gentlemen. I also, as all mums should, show him the public service messages that the ad world routinely creates such as the… Continue reading I have a son and a daughter and this is why I don’t treat them equally

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Shortcuts to a positive me


Of all my favourite features on the iPhone, one of my favourites is called ‘shortcut’.  Where I can programme in short cuts to things I usually have to type quite often but find too tedious and cumbersome to do every time, such as my address. So whenever I type the word ‘address’, on any app… Continue reading Shortcuts to a positive me

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A Mother’s Job Profile


Note to self: Daily reminder My job profile: My children are NOT my report card of an imaginary parenting exam! Their achievements are NOT a certificate of my ‘wonderful’ skills as a mother.  Their success is purely their own...a product of their dedication, hard work, luck, and destiny.  I am here to unconditionally love, assist… Continue reading A Mother’s Job Profile

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Things I want my children to know -6: Dealing with anxiety and worry


To, My babies, When you were younger, it was my job to predict any danger that you could possibly find yourself in...the edge of the table...a step too high...an oncoming cold...and then take the necessary steps to prevent it and keep you safe. As you grew older, your responsibilities increased, and I could no longer… Continue reading Things I want my children to know -6: Dealing with anxiety and worry

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Compari-Sin. Things I want my children to know -5:


Compari-SIN           Comparison is the thief of joy!                               -Theodore Roosevelt  Mother’s orders : repeat this to yourself everyday...several times a day...for as long as you live! Prognosis: will cure envy, insecurity, lack of confidence, complexes Side effects: sheer joy, undiluted happiness, lifelong contentment If you think about it...out of all the experiences that we ever have,… Continue reading Compari-Sin. Things I want my children to know -5:

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Things I want my children to know – 4: Parental Interrogation decoded


When I was young and would return home after a night out with my friends, my father would always ask me questions based on the logistics and statistics of my night... How many people were there? Was the place full? What did everyone eat? What did everyone drink? How did you split the bill? ...the… Continue reading Things I want my children to know – 4: Parental Interrogation decoded

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Cuddles & Snuggles!!


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About Failure. Things I want my children to know – 3


About failure: Failure is such a cold, empty, heartless word that brings with it a feeling of disheartening gloom and indicates there was absolutely no progress. But how can that be true? How can you really have completely ‘failed’ at something if you were just a few steps away? It implies that all your work,… Continue reading About Failure. Things I want my children to know – 3

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Who Educ(H)ates Our Children?


To The Head of Department Ministry of Education, Worldwide Sub: What is the matter?...with you?? Respected Sir/Madam, I trust this letter finds you in the best of health. In my subject line I asked you a simple question. ‘What is the matter?...with you?’ And it has a very simple answer, one which any student can… Continue reading Who Educ(H)ates Our Children?

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Mourning


When things go wrong: There is a period of mourning for everything that goes wrong in your life, whether they’re big or small, life altering or simply mildly disappointing. And you are entitled to experience a gamut of emotions from anger to self-pity and everything in between. You have every right to question life and… Continue reading Mourning

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Sugar and spice and all things nice…that’s what the world should be made of


Imagine a world where CCTV cameras were used for capturing random acts of kindness instead of crime. Where satellites sent us images of people being good to one another. Helping an older neighbour by offering to carry her heavy bags to her car, a motorist slowing down to allow a pedestrian to cross the street.… Continue reading Sugar and spice and all things nice…that’s what the world should be made of

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The Tribe


Beera is a young, charming alpha, full of life and joy, except grief seems to follow him like his shadow. Kanchi is loyal to a fault, with a strong mind and an unbreakable spirit. They have their future ahead of them and the world at their paws, until one moment changes their lives and Beera… Continue reading The Tribe

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Warning: Danger Ahead


Wouldn't it be wonderful for us parents, if life would come with warning signs like this?Against every peodophile, terrorrist, drug dealer and kidnapper that we imagine lurking in the shadows, each time we send our children out into the big bad world. 6.45am….Those glowing numbers in green were the first thing my eyes would see… Continue reading Warning: Danger Ahead

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To The Village That’s Raising My Child


It takes a village to raise a child! Clichè but true as all mum's have realised. Even though, as any mother will tell you, I too have given the job of bringing up my children, my all. But it is only when you have little children do you realise that along with theirs, your own… Continue reading To The Village That’s Raising My Child

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R.I.P Humanity


Dearly beloved, We are gathered here today to mourn the sad demise of humanity. It lived long and served us well, until it met its untimely end. Its death has come as a rude shock to all of us who loved it, for it's truly hard to imagine our lives without it in our midst. … Continue reading R.I.P Humanity

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Hope And The Hashtag


This is the story of the innocuous Hashtag.  Though it was a part of the prestigious ‘Punctuation Family’ who were recognized and used worldwide, the poor Hashtag was the black sheep.  His siblings Comma and Full Stop possessed the power to make the greatest men pause;  Question Mark contributed to great innovations and discoveries; Exclamation… Continue reading Hope And The Hashtag

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Parenting 2.0: Updating ‘Unconventional.parent’ 


Someday history will reveal that the world's greatest invasion was that of technology over human beings.It came...it saw...it conquered and our lives were never the same again! Which would be fine if it were a one time win. Unfortunately, technology is constantly reinventing itself. And the human brain is struggling to keep up. Our smartphones… Continue reading Parenting 2.0: Updating ‘Unconventional.parent’ 

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Ambitions of a Type B Mother


Note to self: I am a 'Type B' parent and I just have to accept it! I'm the mum in the park swinging her child for "only five minutes more" since forty-five minutes.  The one who occasionally allows a chocolate before breakfast.  The one who is extremely flexible about bedtime on weekends.  The one who… Continue reading Ambitions of a Type B Mother

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The Monster Under My Bed


I once read a story about a boy who had a recurring nightmare. In his dream he was always being chased by a scary monster while he tried to run away as fast as his little legs could carry him. The monster was big, bloodthirsty and terrifying and if he wanted to save his life,… Continue reading The Monster Under My Bed

Being woman · gender equality · love · Views & Opinions

#Remember The Time You Did Not Rape Me


If I were ever asked to give an acceptance speech, for the award that is my life, I imagine it would go something like this… ‘To the most important men in my life, I would like to say Thank You. Thank you to my father, for bringing me up just right. For teaching me to… Continue reading #Remember The Time You Did Not Rape Me

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Parenting And The Unwanted Promotion


Call it social conditioning or nature’s plan for survival, a woman feeling her biological clock ticking is a very real phenomenon. Whatever maybe our life's goal, being a mother, for most of us, is high on the list of priorities. Once we feel the tick tock, the sight of gurgling babies in prams, mothers watching… Continue reading Parenting And The Unwanted Promotion

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We Need To Talk!!


I recently saw ‘Hindi Medium’ and was pleasantly surprised that it was such a refreshing, light hearted movie essaying the plight and frustrations of young parents. And the unimaginable lengths that we are willing to go to, to ensure the best for our child. Exaggerated...a tad. But a lot of it was sadly true in… Continue reading We Need To Talk!!